Benefits of doing the Haven Retreat


  • Get your life back – Time is the ultimate perishable resource. Once it is gone, it is gone forever. Get over your divorce fast, and claim your life back now.
  • Life Lessons – Learning is healing. Healing is learning. The lessons you will learn during this program will be valuable to you across many areas of your life.
  • Dare to Dream – Dare to dream of a bigger life, a more ambitious, bolder life, with more rewards. You deserve it.
  • Learn to Love Again – It’s simple, a life lived with love is better. This program will help you attract the right people into your life.
  • Self Confidence – Knowing in your soul that you can overcome adversity is incredibly valuable to any person’s self-confidence, and capability.
  • Inspire Others – By expanding your personal development, you will inspire friends, family, and if you have them, your children.

Frequently Asked Questions

What healing steps are included?

All of them…

Whilst (as the name suggests) our 21-day program runs across 21 days. In this unique dedicated Retreat environment, students are more focused and we can move more swiftly through the program, virtually completing the whole program in just a few days.

We do have some pre-event calls to set you up ready for your transformational journey.

And we follow the retreat with up to 15-45 days of support including twice weekly calls with your Divorce Coach to ensure your transformation is complete.

What results can I expect?

Based on our previous Retreat customers, here’s the results you can expect to receive…

Get over your divorce

Feel clean and empty about your past, and excited about the opportunities that await you again

Improved sleeping patterns

Reduction in emotional highs and lows

A higher rate of productivity

Increased energy levels

Feel creative and alive

Stop jealous and obsessive thoughts

Clear direction and future

Happier and stress free

More emotionally stable than you have ever been

Peaceful interactions with your ex

Reconnect with yourself

Increased strength and resilience

Can I extend the program from 7 to 10 days at no extra cost?


I’m glad you asked-

Yes- you can extend your program from 7 to 10 days, to include 3 Rest Days. Some students who have extra time available appreciate having two breaks during the program to unwind, and take more advantage of the beautiful setting they find themselves in.

The quantity, and quality of the support is unchanged.

Please notify us if you wish to extend the program to 10 days as soon as possible, so we can adjust your support sessions appropriately. Please note that on the Comfort and Luxury options, the extra days’ of accommodation are not included in the base price but we are happy to add it in.

Is this a group event, or a solo event?


BUT, we do run group retreats in San Francisco (USA), Monterey Bay (USA), Puerto Morales (Mexico), Coco la Playa (Costa Rica), Whitianga (New Zealand) and Queenstown (New Zealand) from time to time.

The Haven is USUALLY a solo experience BUT if you are interested in a group event please contact us and we will let you know about our group retreat options.

What is a typical day on The Haven Retreat?

Your typical day on the retreat;

  • Awake after a deep and relaxing night’s sleep
  • Review your daily checklist
  • Enjoy breakfast at your hotel/resort*
  • 1-2-1 Private Coaching
    • At your resort, or
    • in our private consultation room
    • Min 2 hours, Max 3 hours per day
  • Healthy lunch
    • At your resort, or
    • At one of the many beautiful options available
  • Homework: complete that days learnings
  • Do some exercise, go for a walk or book in for a spa treatment in your location
  • Healthy wholesome nutritious dinner
  • Checklist review
  • Tucked up in bed by 10pm


* Not all packages include breakfast

How much coaching is included?

2-3 hours per day

Some days require more intense coaching than others.

Expect a minimum of 2 hours, and a maximum of 3 hours intensive 1-2-1 coaching per day.

What dates are available?

These are constantly changing…

Please contact us to receive more details.

How long is The Haven Retreat?

7 days

If you have more time you can complete the same program with the same quantity and quality of support over 10 days giving you 3 rest days within the program.

You can of course extend your stay as long as you wish to take advantage of, and experience the full beauty of your location.

What’s included in The Haven?


Guaranteed to transform your life

7 days of intensive 1-2-1 coaching – 2 hours per day with your assigned Naked Divorce Coach (you will have homework to complete after your coaching)

Daily Break up Reboot Meditation sessions

Tantrum Emotional Release Day

All Naked Divorce Program Material and available online

15-45 days of follow up counselling sessions depending on which package you take

And much more – that you’ll only discover on arrival

What’s not included?


Our packages do not include flights.

Some packages include accommodation, some do not.

Please read the details for further clarity.

I have more Questions

No problem…

We are happy to answer any questions that you may have.

If you have a simple question you can send that to us via email, or if would like to learn more including costs, availability, other details or just want to talk through your options and details with a real person you can setup a 20min Haven call at a time of your convenience to get all your questions answered in one short call.


Puerto Morales, Mexico

Playa Del Coco, Costa Rica

For questions, please contact me at or call me at 650-332-4656

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